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"The
main thing is to keep
the main thing the main thing."
-Stephen
Covey
As
we celebrate National Procrastination Week (first full week
of March), I reflect on the major causes of procrastination:
- Lack of clarity
about our priorities -- not making clear and concise choices or setting
goals
- Inability to
organize our time, energy, and space around those priorities
- Lack of discipline
to execute the plan
- Fear of failure
Last
month I wrote about the importance of making choices. Managing our time
requires tough choices. That means that sometimes we may have to say
no to important activities in order to attend to even more important
activities that will enable us to accomplish higher priorities.
When
we embark on a journey and we aren't sure how to get there, we typically
jot down travel directions. So why are we so resistant to jotting down
personal or professional goals or choices that would provide a road
map - or at least a compass -- for our lives?
I
work with a lot of small business owners and professionals such as coaches,
consultants, doctors, lawyers, and CPAs. For those in the service industry,
time IS money. To be profitable in their work, they must learn to limit
their investment of time if there will be a limited return on that investment.
Of
course, money is just one way to measure the returns. A "return on investment"
of time may also yield an emotionally healthy and well-adjusted child,
a deeply satisfying marriage, or a beautiful garden. The key is to get
clear about what's most important to you, and then march forth!
March
Forth!
"A static
hero is a public liability.
Progress grows out of motion."
-Anonymous
Several
years ago I was talking with someone at a business luncheon, and at
the end of our conversation he wished me a happy March Forth. I considered
this to be a bit odd at the time, but I didn't give it much more thought.
A couple days later -- on March 4th -- I received a homemade card from
him. The cover of the card contained a picture of a beautiful waterfall.
The inside of the card read, "Thunderous and powerful, yet oh so
beautiful! May your power within thunder out, as you march forth
and realize all your dreams. Happy March Fourth ." It
wasn't until I received his card that I caught the literary ploy.
Today,
as I think about those words - march forth! - I also think about something
my colleague, Harold Taylor, wrote in a recent newsletter: "Major projects
will never be finished if they are never started. The key to getting
things done is to get things started. Pick a date and time and stick
to it." In other words, march forth!
During
a coaching call last week, a client of mine shared that her teenage
daughter had a revelation as she came home from school with an improved
report card. Her daughter exclaimed, "Mom, I finally figured out how
to do well in school - I just have to do my homework!"
Need
a tool to help you take inventory of all the things on your procrastination
list? Check out our RAM
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brain onto paper so you can decide what to do with it all.
Ready,
Aim, Fire!

"One
hundred percent of the shots
you don't take never go in."
-Wayne
Gretzky
Coaches
typically use the following Ready-Aim-Fire process when working with
clients:
- Clarity: What
do you want? (get READY)
- Alignment:
Does this desire align with your mission and values? (take focused
AIM)
- Action:
What's the next action step you will take to move you toward getting
what you want? (FIRE)
Although
some of my clients are not clear about priorities, and others struggle
with organizing their time, energy and space around those priorities,
the vast majority tell me that they struggle with taking action. In
other words, they procrastinate. I believe that all of us procrastinate
around some things.
One
of my clients recently told me that, as much as he values living "in
the moment," he has discovered that he needs structure to his workday
in order to stay focused on what's most important. Click here
to view a sample weekly template of the kind of structure that has supported
some of my clients.
In
Cheryl Richardson's Life Makeover for 2004 January newsletter (author
of several books, such as Take
Time for Your Life, and Life
Makeovers), she shared a technique that she has recently started
using that has made an enormous difference in both the success of her
company and the quality of her life. Here's the technique she shared.
In
the morning when you start your workday, begin with the following
question: What action do I most want to avoid doing today?
Once you have an answer to that question, do these two things:
1.
Identify the cause of your resistance. For example, does the task
feel too tedious or difficult to complete? Is it related to a goal
that no longer serves you? Or, are you simply afraid?
2.
If you are convinced that a task is, in fact, important, take this
action right away.
I've
always subscribed to the idea of tackling the most important tasks first. Cheryl
Richardson's approach has a slight twist to it. Instead of asking
what is most important, she suggests that we ask ourselves what
we most want to avoid. By looking at what you most want to avoid,
it will challenge you to consider whether or not the items on your "to-do"
list are truly designed to move you toward an important goal. It will
also keep you focused on the actions you really need to take rather
than all the "busy work" you may otherwise get caught up in when trying
to avoid something that feels uncomfortable or risky. If you determine
that the task is indeed important, by doing it first you accelerate
your progress.
I'll share a real-life example of how this works. I know the president
of a major company who is looking for a consultant. I have a friend
who does the kind of consulting work this company is looking for. I
told the president about this consultant, and he expressed interest
in talking with her. I contacted my friend and told her that the president
of the company wanted to talk with her. She had never worked with a
company this size, so she was very nervous about placing the call. Each
time she thought about making the call, she felt nervous and excited
at the same time. She recognized that this was a task she most wanted
to avoid, and she also knew it was the one task that could be most significant
in terms of moving her closer to her goal. (My friend recently bought
a new car and is very motivated to attract more consulting work so she
can make the car payments.)
Many of us procrastinate around the things that matter most because
of the anxiety they cause. Using this method requires some vulnerability
on your part. There will be, on occasion, times where you are disappointed
with the outcome. But would you rather waste time doing things that
don't matter, or are you willing to take a risk! Cheryl Richardson reminds
us of this: "Since there's a good chance that you'll live through disappointment
or rejection, why not face your fears head on? You have far more to
gain than you 'think' you have to lose!"
Get
Productive!
March
is filled with productivity holidays . What are you doing to
celebrate them? Here are some ideas:
- March Forth
Day (March 4th) - March forth and realize your dreams! Take action
on something important that you've been putting off!
- National Procrastination
Week (1st full week - beginning March 7) -- What action do you
most want to avoid doing? Identify the cause of your resistance.
If you are convinced that a task is, in fact, important, take this
action right away. If you want to build in accountability for yourself,
contact me to schedule a complimentary
coaching call to determine if this kind of support will move you
forward in the direction you want to go.
- Clean Your
Closet Week (3rd week) -- Identify which closet(s) in your home
or office need to be cleaned out, and carve out some time in your
schedule to do it. You may discover a significant tax deduction if
you choose to donate things to charity. Click here
to read about an excellent tool that helps you value donations. They
guarantee you will save at least $300 in taxes, or your money back.
- National Clutter
Awareness Week (4th week -- 1 st full week after the 1 st day
of spring) - Visit our free
tips section, where you will find a number of article about how
to de-clutter your life.
- Improve Your
Management Skills Month - Most managers will tell you that their
job is to tell people what to do, when it should be done, and how
to do it. Effective managers know that their job is to build trust
and to help people achieve more. Click here
to learn about some remarkable management tools used by more than
40 million people worldwide - tools that help people develop a deeper
understanding of themselves and their relationships.
Productivity
Tech Tools

Visit
our bonus issue of Paauwer
Tools to read about some productivity tech tools we recommend. We have
done the research to save you time! Most of these offer free trial downloads
for you to try risk-free for 30 days.

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